Monday, June 25, 2018

Weekend Recap!

To say we had a busy one is an understatement.  

Friday was a not so great day for us.  After I got Remy ready for Daycare and got him there, I realized he was having some tummy yuck going on and didn't want to spread it to the masses, so we headed home and Daddy met us there. I had a conference call at 3 I couldn't miss, so he was on Remy duty! We had a day full of snuggles and naps!
 
 


Saturday we got our new kitchen table and it warrants all of the heart eye emojis! It is a 6 seater farmhouse counter height table that fits our dining space perfectly! Once Daddy got home from VBS setup, we went swimming! 

 
 
 


Sunday we went to church and came home just long enough to snooze for a little while. Then we were up and ready for Remy's first (really his second, but last year he was three months old) VBS!

 
 
(yes, we know Yellow is not our color!)

We are in the midst of our summer schedule where there's barely time to breathe, but it's so fun with a little one! 

Monday, June 18, 2018

Milestones!

I wrote this for a friend's photography page as a review for our Milestone photos and figured I'd share it here so you can cry along. 



When I was pregnant, I found myself aimlessly scrolling through Pinterest and pinning the cutest baby photos I could find. Don’t we all? I dreamed about what my baby boy would look like - Whose nose would he have? What color would his hair and eyes be? The day he was born, he was the spitting image of my husband, my husband’s dad, and my husband’s grandfather; the Hinners genes run deep.  A few days after getting him home, as he lost the swollen newborn features, his features started to change. They changed so quickly, that I look back at pictures a couple of days apart and they look like two different babies!

Lindsay came to our apartment when Remington was a couple of weeks old to do newborn pictures.  She seemed to effortlessly capture his personality, even catching one of those sweet sleeping smiles. Even still, he was changing. His cheeks were still chubby and pinch worthy, his eyes were widening a bit, and his hair was growing so quickly. It was all going so quickly and I couldn’t imagine losing one more second of each fleeting phase! I reached out to Lindsay to ask if she would do his milestone pictures, and she agreed!



Looking back, I couldn’t fathom not having these pictures. They are some of our favorite memories hanging in our home. I can look at them and remember who my little baby was at that point in time.  At his three month pictures, he was barely able to push up enough to keep his heavy head held high. He had recently found his tongue and was obsessed. Lindsay also captured our first professional picture as a family of three; it is something I will always cherish!!



                Between Remy’s three and six month pictures, he developed quite the personality. He was precious and he knew it. He had the silliest smile and was still a little wobbly when sitting up. He had just found his pointer finger and, much like his tongue in his 3 month pictures, was obsessed. I remember crying quite a bit after his 6 month pictures because I couldn’t believe my sweet baby had changed so much!


                By nine months, my sweet boy had gone from being precious to being a ham. He loved being in front of the camera. I remember by these pictures that crawling had just entered his skill set and he had just found his voice. I was reminded, after looking through the 9 month pictures to pull my favorites, how much Remy had started to love daddy’s duck calls. Lindsay was so thoughtful to incorporate it into the pictures!



And lastly, for his twelve month pictures (which I really feel like they were taken the week after his newborn pictures), I was already a teary eyed mess going into them because I was in partial denial that my baby was already a year old! He was trying so hard to walk, and would take his first steps two days later! We incorporated a cake smash session, too! Words of advice – opt out of chocolate icing! You’ll thank me! ;)




Holding each set of pictures next to the ones before both breaks my heart and makes me smile. (I don’t dare hold the one year next to the newborns unless I want to cry!) I can go back and watch him grow all over again! This has been the best investment we made in Remington’s first year!

Thursday, June 14, 2018

Winging It

 

My personal challenge to myself this summer is to wing it.  I am a very regimented, very scheduled person with little tolerance for last minute plans. 

So far, I'm only semi failing.  It is so hard for me to put my planner away to live a little, but I'm trying to learn to just up and go, to take Remy places that make me totally anxious, and to breathe.  

Over the weekend, we had a full couple of "wing it" days.  

Saturday we were having furniture delivered between 12 and 4, so we got up in an attempt to go get breakfast and have fun for an hour or so. The plan was Target to look for a birthday gift for a party on Sunday (yikes: last minute) and then breakfast. Jackson was gone all week and was tired and hungry, and so was Remington. So they both fell asleep and I took the chance to swing into Krispy Kreme's parking lot. Then we got a call at 10:30 saying the furniture delivery truck was in our driveway, so we booked it home. after getting the furniture settled, we headed back out to get a rug (ouch - expensive), and to take Remy to Monkey Joe's. A major stressor for me is whether Remy eats or not; he's picky to say the least. We took him to Panda Express for dinner and he chowed down! So unlike him, but such a pleasant surprise. 

Sunday, we got a last minute cancellation for lunch plans, and we had to somehow make it to West Nashville to take our recliner to Jackson's brother before heading to a birthday party that afternoon.  We ended up at Blue Coast for lunch where Remy ate lunch like a champ and then was a terror in Target. But we needed to go, so we went. 

All of that to say that it didn't kill me to wing it - in fact, it was kind of refreshing not to feel nailed down to plans. I rested well, the housework waited, and we even napped a bit as a family. 

Here's to living. 

Monday, June 11, 2018

Summer 2018 Bucket List

This is our first summer with a toddler, and it's my favorite summer so far! Everything is new to him, and it's all so fun and scream worthy!

Here's our 2018 Summer Bucket List!
Lots of splash pad time
Remy's first watermelon
Go to the zoo
2 ice cream dates per month
Feed ducks!
Chalk drawing on the driveway
Plant some bushes in our front yard
4th of July fireworks
Play with Finger Paint


Thursday, June 7, 2018

We Built a House!

In December of last year, we found a house in the middle of Nashville that we loved. By the time we got the preapproval paperwork done, numbers crunched, and got out there to look, it was sold.  We were devastated. We waited and waited and looked and on the 30th of January we found one that was in the process of being built outside of Nashville (12 minutes from my work) in a quiet country neighborhood.  We went and looked and fell in love. 

We put in an offer and on our fourth anniversary, our offer was accepted! It was a long process with lots of setbacks due to rain, but after many light fixture choices and paint colors, we closed on May 4!

We are so excited for all of the life that will happen in this house! For now, we are still unpacking and getting our life hung on the walls. 

For now, enjoy the pictures of the house pre-move in!








 

Tuesday, June 5, 2018

Summer Loving

This week has been a trying one to say the least. I'm home with Remy Jones by myself in our brand new house and not enough furniture to sit next to him and not be touched.  Everything has a sticky spot and the ants are finding them more quickly than I can.


This week I have learned a few things about myself as a mom. I had lots of anxiety going into this week, but am trying to enjoy it more than count down until Daddy comes home. 

I have learned that I can squeeze myself onto the tiniest slice of my own queen sized bed to make space for my cuddle bug. That slice on the right is my piece of dream land.

I have realized that I love the movie Trolls, and we watch it for me more so than him.  

I have learned that he loves water when playing and hated bath time because it was a chore.  Thank you, Splash Pad for fixing bath time for us

  

I have come to be okay that popsicles and the stains to follow are perfectly acceptable. 


Mostly, I have learned that I am a good mom. The world is quick to try to tell me otherwise, to tell me he can't have a popsicle because he may stain his shirt... I am a good mom and my child is so happy.  I am learning that God is using my anxieties for reassurance, to remind me that I can (He can) even when life is telling me I can't.